Your Stories

If you would like to share your own story of therapist abuse or professional misconduct and be witnessed by the community, you can:

  • Post it as a comment on this page
  • Submit a longer story for publication by contacting me through the Contact page and arranging to email it to me

Please DO NOT include the real names of the therapists or other parties involved. We want to avoid any potential legal issues that may arise from using people’s real names. Any comments in violation of this may be removed by the moderator.

 

You can read the following survivor stories by clicking the links.

Kelly’s Story – “Silent No More”

Maria’s Story – “From Charmed to Harmed: The Aftermath of Sexual Exploitation”

Michelle’s Story of Healing – “Reclaiming My Life”

Vincent’s Story

Thank you for having the courage to share your stories!

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  1. Hi there,
    I was sexually abused by my therapist 2 years ago. I did all the right things. I complained about him to the proper authorities and went through the excrutiating complaint process. In the end they dismissed the complaint because he denied everything and there was not evidence to support my allegations against him. Thats it. That was the end of it. Nothing else. He got to move on while I’ve been living with the hell of what he did to me. I’ve tried very hard to move on and get over it but I can’t. So I’ve decided I’m going to kill myself. I’m going to leave a suicide note explaining that he his the sole reason for why I’ve chosen this path. That this is the only way I can ensure he pays for what he did for the rest of his life. No one cares. So I will make them care.

    • What occurred to you is so wrong. Your former therapist violated boundaries that never should have been crossed and in doing so violated you, your trust, and the princples of his/ her profession. So you are living with excrutiating pain and it sounds like you have lost hope . I have been there and I am so angered when I hear of the pain that a therapist has caa person who has i he/she has to live with that. Was you complaint to a Medical Board ? A professional association?
      I have experienced a similar experience and was abused by a psychiatrist / psychoanalyst for five years . It has taken me years of therapy to recover but I too felt that I could not survive through all the isolation I experienced . This type of betrayal is horrible and the therapist who abused you is a very sick person and sought to have his/ her needs met through you . What was of greatest help to me was the site TELL ( therapist exploitation link line) and formed a relationship with a responder whose support saved me .. There are articles and links that could be useful .
      Many well meaning subsequent therapists do not understand all that a victim of therapist abuse suffers . Google “betrayal trauma” there you might find deeper understanding of what you are going through .
      Do not allow this fraud to steal your hope away from you .
      Seek help from other survivors as our hearts are with you .
      God bless you .

      Houston , Texas

  2. llse,
    I care. I really do care. And I know others on this site also care about you. What he did is deplorable and the board was wrong in dismissing your case. I am so sorry this happened to you. Have you considered filing a civil suit against him? What about writing negative reviews of his practice? I know thesd are sooo small considering what he did to you. These were just a few that I just came up with. I know you are in a lot of pain but there are other options to make him pay. You are right, this isn’t something that one can “get over” or “move on” from. He has caused a lot of destruction in your life and a lot of chaos. And there is probably a lot of mistrust. Please reach out to a friend, pastor, or the suicide hotline. We do care.

  3. Ilse, I care too. My abuser got away with it as well so I know some of what you are going through. I promise you it will get easier but you have to hang in there until it does. The system doesn’t work, but that’s no reflection on you – you did everything right. You spoke up and did your part. He has to live with the lies he told. Given the choice I would rather be us – telling the truth and sticking up for ourselves, than be him who has hurt someone and now has to live with the lies he told about it. I know it seems like no one cares, but people on here care, and there are others out there who will care.

  4. Ilse, I care too. I also did not get justice. It is very disheartening to go through the cruelties of the system after the cruelty of the abuse. Please do reach out to someone as Kelly mentioned. The National Suicide Hotlines are: 1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255.

  5. I hope its okay if I just post a wordpress page to my story. It has nothing else on it but the story. All names and locations are censored. My story spans 10 years and I believe it shows a entire hospital system of abusers and a chronic problem in a entire city. I may not be a perfect person but mental illness should not be a reason to lose all your rights and be treated like a animal.

    I have been through what I would define as literal psychological torture and in the end it resulted in me attempting suicide and blaming myself for my own sexual assault. They completely messed up my head and even turned my own parents against for me for awhile. I lashed out at the hospitals recently in a complaint and gave them even more ammunition to hurt me. I figured I would at least tell my story.

    I have no idea how this is going to end or how far they will go to ruin my life even more. At a minimum I expect to lose my social security benefits due to my complaint but I will never be ashamed for speaking up. Its been 10 years and I as well as others have been treated horribly. I would define my experience with psychology as felony crime at a large scale.

    People need to protect themselves and their loved ones from abusers. Psychology is not always what it is advertised to be. If they don’t back off, my life will end. Hopefully other people get better luck than I have.

    https://healthcareabuse.wordpress.com/

    I apologize for some of the formating. It didn’t translate perfectly to the website.

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